You might be wondering what this blog is all about. You know, other than the memories and adventures.
I broke up with my boyfriend, and no this isn’t going to be typical sob story.
You see, we’re still greatly in love with each other. We’ve shared so much of our lives together, since when we met in the 6th grade.. We’re still going to be part of each other’s lives. He wasn’t just my boyfriend but my best friend, my partner. What made our relationship special was that we knew each other so well— our strengths, our weaknesses. Even through all of the hardships, we made it through. I’m sure that this is just another obstacle that we can face.
The reason we broke up was simply this: we were co-dependent. Not that it’s a bad thing, necessarily. But it is bad in the sense that we yet to grow up on our own and develop as individuals. We’ve shared our lives with each other for seven years, nine if you count the two that we’ve known each other as friends. We need to experience life on our own before we even consider taking next steps.
I’ll be using this blog to document my explorations, adventures, and memories. Hopefully I’ll be able to look back and not only remember the great things I’ve done to experience life, but also see that I’ve grown and developed as an adult. If I have, I’d love to share what I’ve done and learned with anyone else out there who is willing to follow along with my journey.
Without struggle it’s almost impossible to be grateful for the wonderful moments. It’s been a good run, but now it’s time to grow and mature. I vow to experience life, explore the world, learn to be an adult, and be a fool sometimes. If it was really meant to be then I’ll be seeing him later in life with new experiences and perspectives.